Firstly, I'm an idiot and don't know what I'm doing. But I have read the help yet it is not matching my experience... and I figure this is because I'm an idiot. And I've been trying to sort this out for weeks, making me feel even more like an idiot.

Something happen and Win 10 swapped drivers to one incompatible with RAID disks. After 5 months of trying to resolve the issue by fixing Windows I gave up and did a fresh install on a new SSD.
Into all this add Seagate drives... 2 x 1Tb and 2 x 3Tb (the damn backup drive) that have either failed or failed on initial testing.
So the systems looks like this...
#1 Controller
Raid Disk 1 (all 1TB)
Raid Disk 2
Raid Disk 3
Raid Disk 4
SSD Boot
SSD Old
#2 Controller
DVD Drive
Backup Disk
AMD 8 core
16 Gb RAM
(noted for comments on speed)
Even after the reload of Windows I can't see the RAID disks.
I'm 60% sure they are in the right order. The disks are definitely in same order as they were removed from the stack. If I'm wrong then it is a total invert of the 4.
So I didn't have much choice but to try using the motherboard utility to recreate the RAID. At that point I might have rewritten some tables. I have no idea and would take advice.
Firstly because I'm following the help I have not scanned the disks first. Nor do I have the replacement 3Tb drive to image the disks at this stage. I want to make a virtual raid set and see what the story is.
I think what I might have done wrong is to not scan the drive before trying to create the virtual raid but I see nowhere in the help documents that talks on this topic.
Everything is going fine setting up the RAID 5 virtual disk until I run autodetect. I've created an addition desktop as you can't hide the main program window and run that for up to 3 days. How long is this meant to take? I have reasons to wanta reboot, pesty programs that insist on it.
So if I can just get one thing right... do I have to scan the 4 disk before I start messing with creating the virtual raid?
And with that a software suggestion. I have been known to get up every 2 hours during the night to feed orphan baby fruit bats but I'd prefer if I could select multiple disks and scan them in a batch.
Tanks,
Yani